nbd/client-connection: shutdown connection on release

nbd/client-connection: shutdown connection on release

Now, when a thread can do negotiation and retry, it may run relatively
long. We need a mechanism to stop it, when the user is not interested
in a result any more. So, on nbd_client_connection_release() let's
shutdown the socket, and do not retry connection if thread is detached.

Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Message-Id: <20210610100802.5888-22-vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>