partially fix #3056: try to cancel backup without uuid
if the 'backup' qmp call itself times out or fails, we still want to
try to cancel the backup, else it can happen that there is still
a backup running even when vzdump thinks it was canceled
qapi docs says that backup cancel always returns success, even
if no backup is running
since we hold a global and a per vm lock for the backup, this should be
ok, since we should not reach this code without that lock