bgpd, lib: memory cleanups for valgrind, plus debug changes

bgpd, lib: memory cleanups for valgrind, plus debug changes

Description:
    We use valgrind memcheck quite a bit to spot leaks in
    our work with bgpd. In order to eliminate false positives,
    we added code in the exit path to release the remaining
    allocated memory.

    Bgpd startup log message now includes pid.

Some little tweaks by Paul Jakma <paul.jakma@hpe.com>:

* bgp_mplsvpn.c: (str2prefix_rd) do the cleanup in common code at the end
  and goto it.

[DL: dropped several chunks from original commit which are obsolete by
now on this tree.]