graph-lock: Unlock the AioContext while polling

graph-lock: Unlock the AioContext while polling

If the caller keeps the AioContext lock for a block node in an iothread,
polling in bdrv_graph_wrlock() deadlocks if the condition isn't
fulfilled immediately.

Now that all callers make sure to actually have the AioContext locked
when they call bdrv_replace_child_noperm() like they should, we can
change bdrv_graph_wrlock() to take a BlockDriverState whose AioContext
lock the caller holds (NULL if it doesn't) and unlock it temporarily
while polling.

Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-ID: <20230605085711.21261-11-kwolf@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>