introduce `git_index_entry_is_conflict`

introduce `git_index_entry_is_conflict`

It's not always obvious the mapping between stage level and
conflict-ness.  More importantly, this can lead otherwise sane
people to write constructs like `if (!git_index_entry_stage(entry))`,
which (while technically correct) is unreadable.

Provide a nice method to help avoid such messy thinking.