scsi: lpfc: Fix bad ndlp ptr in xri aborted handling

scsi: lpfc: Fix bad ndlp ptr in xri aborted handling

In cases where I/O may be aborted, such as driver unload or link bounces,
the system will crash based on a bad ndlp pointer.

Example:
  RIP: 0010:lpfc_sli4_abts_err_handler+0x15/0x140 [lpfc]
  ...
  lpfc_sli4_io_xri_aborted+0x20d/0x270 [lpfc]
  lpfc_sli4_sp_handle_abort_xri_wcqe.isra.54+0x84/0x170 [lpfc]
  lpfc_sli4_fp_handle_cqe+0xc2/0x480 [lpfc]
  __lpfc_sli4_process_cq+0xc6/0x230 [lpfc]
  __lpfc_sli4_hba_process_cq+0x29/0xc0 [lpfc]
  process_one_work+0x14c/0x390

Crash was caused by a bad ndlp address passed to I/O indicated by the XRI
aborted CQE.  The address was not NULL so the routine deferenced the ndlp
ptr. The bad ndlp also caused the lpfc_sli4_io_xri_aborted to call an
erroneous io handler.  Root cause for the bad ndlp was an lpfc_ncmd that
was aborted, put on the abort_io list, completed, taken off the abort_io
list, sent to lpfc_release_nvme_buf where it was put back on the abort_io
list because the lpfc_ncmd->flags setting LPFC_SBUF_XBUSY was not cleared
on the final completion.

Rework the exchange busy handling to ensure the flags are properly set for
both scsi and nvme.

Fixes: c490850a0947 ("scsi: lpfc: Adapt partitioned XRI lists to efficient sharing")
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v5.1+
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20191018211832.7917-6-jsmart2021@gmail.com
Signed-off-by: Dick Kennedy <dick.kennedy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: James Smart <jsmart2021@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin K. Petersen <martin.petersen@oracle.com>