RDMA/netdev: Hoist alloc_netdev_mqs out of the driver

RDMA/netdev: Hoist alloc_netdev_mqs out of the driver

netdev has several interfaces that expect to call alloc_netdev_mqs from
the core code, with the driver only providing the arguments.  This is
incompatible with the rdma_netdev interface that returns the netdev
directly.

Thus re-organize the API used by ipoib so that the verbs core code calls
alloc_netdev_mqs for the driver. This is done by allowing the drivers to
provide the allocation parameters via a 'get_params' callback and then
initializing an allocated netdev as a second step.

Fixes: cd565b4b51e5 ("IB/IPoIB: Support acceleration options callbacks")
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Denis Drozdov <denisd@mellanox.com>
Signed-off-by: Saeed Mahameed <saeedm@mellanox.com>