settings: rename `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_SYNCHRONOUS_OBJECT_CREATION`

settings: rename `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_SYNCHRONOUS_OBJECT_CREATION`

Initially, the setting has been solely used to enable the use of
`fsync()` when creating objects. Since then, the use has been extended
to also cover references and index files. As the option is not yet part
of any release, we can still correct this by renaming the option to
something more sensible, indicating not only correlation to objects.

This commit renames the option to `GIT_OPT_ENABLE_FSYNC_GITDIR`. We also
move the variable from the object to repository source code.