remote: remove live changing of refspecs

remote: remove live changing of refspecs

The base refspecs changing can be a cause of confusion as to what is the
current base refspec set and complicate saving the remote's
configuration.

Change `git_remote_add_{fetch,push}()` to update the configuration
instead of an instance.

This finally makes `git_remote_save()` a no-op, it will be removed in a
later commit.