QemuOpts: Convert qemu_opts_set() to Error, fix its use

QemuOpts: Convert qemu_opts_set() to Error, fix its use

Return the Error object instead of reporting it with
qerror_report_err().

Change callers that assume the function can't fail to pass
&error_abort, so that should the assumption ever break, it'll break
noisily.

Turns out all callers outside its unit test assume that.  We could
drop the Error ** argument, but that would make the interface less
regular, so don't.

Signed-off-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>