bpf: add ability to charge bpf maps memory dynamically
This commits extends existing bpf maps memory charging API
to support dynamic charging/uncharging.
This is required to account memory used by maps,
if all entries are created dynamically after
the map initialization.
Signed-off-by: Roman Gushchin <guro@fb.com> Cc: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org> Cc: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net> Acked-by: Martin KaFai Lau <kafai@fb.com> Signed-off-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>