block/fuse: do not set is_external=true on FUSE fd

block/fuse: do not set is_external=true on FUSE fd

This is part of ongoing work to remove the aio_disable_external() API.

Use BlockDevOps .drained_begin/end/poll() instead of
aio_set_fd_handler(is_external=true).

As a side-effect the FUSE export now follows AioContext changes like the
other export types.

Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20230516190238.8401-16-stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>