iproute2: devlink: port from sys/queue.h to list.h

iproute2: devlink: port from sys/queue.h to list.h

sys/queue.h does not exist on linux-musl targets and fails build as:

    devlink.c:28:10: fatal error: sys/queue.h: No such file or directory
       28 | #include <sys/queue.h>
          |          ^~~~~~~~~~~~~

The change ports to list.h API and drops dependency of 'sys/queue.h'.
The API maps one-to-one.

Build-tested on linux-musl and linux-glibc.

Bug: https://bugs.gentoo.org/690486
CC: Stephen Hemminger <stephen@networkplumber.org>
CC: netdev@vger.kernel.org
Signed-off-by: Sergei Trofimovich <slyfox@gentoo.org>
Signed-off-by: Stephen Hemminger <stephen@networkplumber.org>