remote: accept a repo and name for renaming

remote: accept a repo and name for renaming

Remote objects are not meant to be changed from under the user. We did
this in rename, but only the name and left the refspecs, such that a
save would save the wrong refspecs (and a fetch and anything else would
use the wrong refspecs).

Instead, let's simply take a name and not change any loaded remote from
under the user.