virtiofsd: Don't assume header layout

virtiofsd: Don't assume header layout

virtiofsd incorrectly assumed a fixed set of header layout in the virt
queue; assuming that the fuse and write headers were conveniently
separated from the data;  the spec doesn't allow us to take that
convenience, so fix it up to deal with it the hard way.

Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210428110100.27757-3-dgilbert@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>