qht: add qht_iter_remove

qht: add qht_iter_remove

This currently has no users, but the use case is so common that I
think we must support it.

Note that without the appended we cannot safely remove a set of
elements; a 2-step approach (i.e. qht_iter first, keep track of
the to-be-deleted elements, and then a bunch of qht_remove calls)
would be racy, since between the iteration and the removals other
threads might insert additional elements.

Reviewed-by: Alex Bennée <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Emilio G. Cota <cota@braap.org>
Signed-off-by: Richard Henderson <richard.henderson@linaro.org>