meson: fix libqos linking

meson: fix libqos linking

Add genh to the sources to avoid race conditions between QAPI
file generation and libqos compilation.

Make the name_suffix .fa for consistency with other link_whole
static libraries and to work around a Meson issue where
lots of linker flags are placed between -Wl,--start-group and
-Wl,--end-group and this breaks the fork-fuzz.ld linker script.

Reported-by: Claudio Fontana <cfontana@suse.de>
Reported-by: Alexander Bulekov <alxndr@bu.edu>
Signed-off-by: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>