nbd/server: Prepare to receive extended header requests

nbd/server: Prepare to receive extended header requests

Although extended mode is not yet enabled, once we do turn it on, we
need to accept extended requests for all messages.  Previous patches
have already taken care of supporting 64-bit lengths, now we just need
to read it off the wire.

Note that this implementation will block indefinitely on a buggy
client that sends a non-extended payload (that is, we try to read a
full packet before we ever check the magic number, but a client that
mistakenly sends a simple request after negotiating extended headers
doesn't send us enough bytes), but it's no different from any other
client that stops talking to us partway through a packet and thus not
worth coding around.

Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@yandex-team.ru>
Message-ID: <20230925192229.3186470-16-eblake@redhat.com>