refdb and odb backends must provide `free` function

refdb and odb backends must provide `free` function

As refdb and odb backends can be allocated by client code, libgit2
can’t know whether an alternative memory allocator was used, and thus
should not try to call `git__free` on those objects.

Instead, odb and refdb backend implementations must always provide
their own `free` functions to ensure memory gets freed correctly.