monitor: rename out_lock to mon_lock

monitor: rename out_lock to mon_lock

The out_lock is protecting a few Monitor fields.  In the future the
monitor code will start to run in multiple threads.  We are going to
turn it into a bigger lock to protect not only the out buffer but also
most of the rest.

Since at it, rearrange the Monitor struct a bit.

Reviewed-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20180608035511.7439-2-peterx@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>