bcachefs: Add checks for invalid snapshot IDs

bcachefs: Add checks for invalid snapshot IDs

Previously, we assumed that keys were consistent with the snapshots
btree - but that's not correct as fsck may not have been run or may not
be complete.

This adds checks and error handling when using the in-memory snapshots
table (that mirrors the snapshots btree).

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>