aio: remove aio_disable_external() API

All callers now pass is_external=false to aio_set_fd_handler() and
aio_set_event_notifier(). The aio_disable_external() API that
temporarily disables fd handlers that were registered is_external=true
is therefore dead code.

Remove aio_disable_external(), aio_enable_external(), and the
is_external arguments to aio_set_fd_handler() and
aio_set_event_notifier().

The entire test-fdmon-epoll test is removed because its sole purpose was
testing aio_disable_external().

Parts of this patch were generated using the following coccinelle
(https://coccinelle.lip6.fr/) semantic patch:

  @@
  expression ctx, fd, is_external, io_read, io_write, io_poll, io_poll_ready, opaque;
  @@
  - aio_set_fd_handler(ctx, fd, is_external, io_read, io_write, io_poll, io_poll_ready, opaque)
  + aio_set_fd_handler(ctx, fd, io_read, io_write, io_poll, io_poll_ready, opaque)

  @@
  expression ctx, notifier, is_external, io_read, io_poll, io_poll_ready;
  @@
  - aio_set_event_notifier(ctx, notifier, is_external, io_read, io_poll, io_poll_ready)
  + aio_set_event_notifier(ctx, notifier, io_read, io_poll, io_poll_ready)

Reviewed-by: Juan Quintela <quintela@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Philippe Mathieu-Daudé <philmd@linaro.org>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20230516190238.8401-21-stefanha@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Kevin Wolf <kwolf@redhat.com>