This leads to a series of -53 errors
(failed to init adminq) from the IAVF.
Change the state of the vf_state field to be not active when the IAVF
is still initializing. Make sure to wait until receiving the message on
the message box to ensure that the vf is ready and initializded.
In simple terms we use the ACTIVE flag to make sure that the ice
driver knows if the iavf is ready for another reset