QemuOpts: Drop qemu_opt_set(), rename qemu_opt_set_err(), fix use

QemuOpts: Drop qemu_opt_set(), rename qemu_opt_set_err(), fix use

qemu_opt_set() is a wrapper around qemu_opt_set() that reports the
error with qerror_report_err().

Most of its users assume the function can't fail.  Make them use
qemu_opt_set_err() with &error_abort, so that should the assumption
ever break, it'll break noisily.

Just two users remain, in util/qemu-config.c.  Switch them to
qemu_opt_set_err() as well, then rename qemu_opt_set_err() to
qemu_opt_set().

Signed-off-by: Markus Armbruster <armbru@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>