cputlb: add assert_cpu_is_self checks

cputlb: add assert_cpu_is_self checks

For SoftMMU the TLB flushes are an example of a task that can be
triggered on one vCPU by another. To deal with this properly we need to
use safe work to ensure these changes are done safely. The new assert
can be enabled while debugging to catch these cases.

Signed-off-by: Alex Bennée <alex.bennee@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Richard Henderson <rth@twiddle.net>