net: add confirm_neigh method to dst_ops

net: add confirm_neigh method to dst_ops

BugLink: https://bugs.launchpad.net/bugs/1715812
Add confirm_neigh method to dst_ops and use it from IPv4 and IPv6
to lookup and confirm the neighbour. Its usage via the new helper
dst_confirm_neigh() should be restricted to MSG_PROBE users for
performance reasons.

For XFRM prefer the last tunnel address, if present. With help
from Steffen Klassert.

Signed-off-by: Julian Anastasov <ja@ssi.bg>
Acked-by: Steffen Klassert <steffen.klassert@secunet.com>
Signed-off-by: David S. Miller <davem@davemloft.net>
(cherry picked from commit 63fca65d08632fbec9d9b655f671cf08aa1aeeb8)
Signed-off-by: Daniel Axtens <daniel.axtens@canonical.com>
Acked-by: Stefan Bader <stefan.bader@canonical.com>
Acked-by: Colin King <colin.king@canonical.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Bader <stefan.bader@canonical.com>