revert two stable patches that have reports about regressions

revert two stable patches that have reports about regressions

we never released them yet (only introduced after 6.1.0), but there
are upstream reports about regressions for them at:
https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/CAK8fFZ5pzMaw3U1KXgC_OK4shKGsN=HDcR62cfPOuL0umXE1Ww@mail.gmail.com/
https://lore.kernel.org/netdev/CAK8fFZ6A_Gphw_3-QMGKEFQk=sfCw1Qmq0TVZK3rtAi7vb621A@mail.gmail.com/

So do a preventive revert.

Signed-off-by: Thomas Lamprecht <t.lamprecht@proxmox.com>