fix #4476: savevm-async: avoid looping without progress

fix #4476: savevm-async: avoid looping without progress

when pend_postcopy is large. By definition, pend_postcopy won't
decrease when iterating, so a value larger than the cutoff of 400000
would lead to essentially empty iterations, filling up the state file
until only 30 MiB + pending_size remain and the second half of the
check would trigger.

Avoid this, by not considering pend_postcopy for the cutoff to enter
the final phase.

Signed-off-by: Fiona Ebner <f.ebner@proxmox.com>