pending apply/hotplug: don't hard code force to true

pending apply/hotplug: don't hard code force to true

Each pending options has a hash value which has the 'force'
information encoded as entry. But, this can be { force => 1 } or
{ force => 0 }, so we actually need to check the value and not just
set force to the hash directly, as else we have force always truthy..

fixes a bug where 'detach' caused disks to be destroyed immediately,
because $force parameter was always true since hash is true.

Signed-off-by: Oguz Bektas <o.bektas@proxmox.com>
Signed-off-by: Thomas Lamprecht <t.lamprecht@proxmox.com>