net: call socket_set_fast_reuse instead of setting SO_REUSEADDR

net: call socket_set_fast_reuse instead of setting SO_REUSEADDR

SO_REUSEADDR should be avoided on Windows but is desired on other operating
systems. So instead of setting it we call socket_set_fast_reuse that will result
in the appropriate behaviour on all operating systems.

An exception to this rule are multicast sockets where it is sensible to have
multiple sockets listen on the same ip and port and we should set SO_REUSEADDR
on windows.

Signed-off-by: Sebastian Ottlik <ottlik@fzi.de>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Weil <sw@weilnetz.de>