diff_cb() does not handle large dnodes

diff_cb() does not handle large dnodes

Trying to 'zfs diff' a snapshot with large dnodes will incorrectly try
to access its interior slots when dnodesize > sizeof(dnode_phys_t).
This is normally not an issue because the interior slots are
zero-filled, which report_dnode() handles calling
report_free_dnode_range(). However this is not the case for encrypted
large dnodes or filesystem using many SA based xattrs where the extra
data past the legacy dnode size boundary is interpreted as a
dnode_phys_t.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Reviewed-by: Tom Caputi <tcaputi@datto.com>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@ixsystems.com>
Signed-off-by: loli10K <ezomori.nozomu@gmail.com>
Closes #7678
Closes #8931
Closes #9343