Add support for per dataset zil stats and use wmsum counters

Add support for per dataset zil stats and use wmsum counters

ZIL kstats are reported in an inclusive way, i.e., same counters are
shared to capture all the activities happening in zil. Added support
to report zil stats for every datset individually by combining them
with already exposed dataset kstats.

Wmsum uses per cpu counters and provide less overhead as compared
to atomic operations. Updated zil kstats to replace wmsum counters
to avoid atomic operations.

Reviewed-by: Christian Schwarz <christian.schwarz@nutanix.com>
Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Reviewed-by: Alexander Motin <mav@FreeBSD.org>
Signed-off-by: Ameer Hamza <ahamza@ixsystems.com>
Closes #13636