Activate filesystem features only in syncing context

Activate filesystem features only in syncing context

When activating filesystem features after receiving a snapshot, do
so only in syncing context.

Reviewed-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Reviewed-by: Richard Yao <richard.yao@alumni.stonybrook.edu>
Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Signed-off-by: George Amanakis <gamanakis@gmail.com>
Closes #14304
Closes #14252