Fix unlinked file cannot do xattr operations

Fix unlinked file cannot do xattr operations

Currently, doing things like fsetxattr(2) on an unlinked file will result in
ENODATA. There's two places that cause this: zfs_dirent_lock and zfs_zget.

The fix in zfs_dirent_lock is pretty straightforward. In zfs_zget though, we
need it to not return error when the zp is unlinked. This is a pretty big
change in behavior, but skimming through all the callers, I don't think this
change would cause any problem. Also there's nothing preventing z_unlinked
from being set after the z_lock mutex is dropped before but before zfs_zget
returns anyway.

The rest of the stuff is to make sure we don't log xattr stuff when owner is
unlinked.

Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <david.chen@osnexus.com>