Fix unprotected zfs_znode_dmu_fini

Fix unprotected zfs_znode_dmu_fini

In original code, zfs_znode_dmu_fini is called in zfs_rmnode without
zfs_znode_hold_enter. It seems to assume it's ok to do so when the znode
is unlinked. However this assumption is not correct, as zfs_zget can be
called by NFS through zpl_fh_to_dentry as pointed out by Christian in
https://github.com/openzfs/zfs/pull/12767, which could result in a
use-after-free bug.

Reviewed-by: Brian Behlendorf <behlendorf1@llnl.gov>
Co-authored-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Signed-off-by: Chunwei Chen <david.chen@nutanix.com>
Signed-off-by: Ryan Moeller <ryan@iXsystems.com>
Closes #12767
Closes #14364